How to serve merlot is described in several books. Merlot Wine Guide from TasteTour describes how to serve merlot. Cooking with Merlot is another book that describes how to server merlot. How to serve Merlot is basically with any dish that calls for Cabernet and try it even with some lighter meats. Many people traditionally serve merlot at a dinner party because of its soft texture and taste. Do not serve Merlot with your turkey; it results in a foul, metallic taste that is difficult to eradicate from your tongue. Serve merlot with barbecued spare ribs, freshly sliced prosciutto, marinated grilled vegetables or mild cheeses.